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In September 2006 I received an email from a reader wondering if she could somehow receive child support from an illegal alien. She did not know that her boyfriend was an illegal alien at the time she got pregnant and then he just vanished.

Since that time I have received a constant flow of emails and comments regarding receiving child support from an illegal alien. My response to most of them is not hopeful because most illegals are using false documents. You can read some of the comments and horror stories at my entry "Can You Get Child Support From An Illegal Alien?"

Immigration cannot even track illegal workers in this country. Even people who have reported illegal aliens or businesses that hire them have seen no action taken by law enforcement. The chances of you receiving child support from an illegal alien are very slim. Their false identities and rampant identity theft put a criminal barrier between their actions and their responsibilities. This is deliberate and purposeful.

My caution to all of you out there is do not deal with illegal aliens at all. If you happen upon one report them to ICE at the hotline: 1-866-DHS-2-ICE

Do not date them. Do not hire them. Do not buy oranges from them. Do not deal with them at all. You don't know exactly who you are dealing with, whether they be a criminal with fake identity or just someone who is truly here to send money back home (though still using a stolen identity). Many already have a family back home and any promises to you of loyalty are strictly for the moment and their benefit. I've received so many emails stating that they have had a baby with an illegal alien only later to find out they have a wife and kids back in their home country it is simply staggering.

Here is one of the latest horror stories that was sent into me by Reader Chloe.


I am in the same situation as all the others. It doesn't get any easier either, only more complicated. My illegal and I were on and off for the past 9 1/2 years. We really did love each other at one time. He decided to see someone else, well apparently for the entire time we've been together.

It just proves they can lead a double life and get away with it. He currently does not pay support but many say the reason is because I will not let him see the kids. That is just stupid. Well, we both have restraining orders against each other. But he is really the crazy one. He abused me the entire time, just over the summer he decided since I didn't want to follow him home from the restaurant he would hit my truck and cause almost $5000.00 of damage to it.

He even told my children to keep this other girl a secret and that she would be their new "MOMMY". I did not find out right away. But when I did, I was mad. He only played mind games with me and it was all lies.

That is all these men do from Mexico. They find some helpless girl who will pity them and get them pregnant.Then decide to abuse them every way possible and end up not taking care of their responsibilities.

But this illegal mexican did work two jobs basically everyday. No wonder why he managed to have an affair. And the money, well, he would say "that's my money. not your money." He called me lazy and I am a bad mother while I was left home with the children while he partied all night with other girls.

This new girl he plans on marrying just to get his green card. Immigration does not care, the police will not do anything about it. It is so obvious illegals get away with everything. They have fake social security cards, IDs, birth certificates. It is no wonder immigration is never able to find them.

For the longest time he didn't want child support to come after his ass because immigration might get him.
I called the child support office, gave info where he works, the fake social security # he uses, even his bank account number. As of this day, he owes me $28,000 and that is just for one kid. He has paid to date $77.00.

I did one better to by turning him in for child neglect and abuse. It wasn't a lie either. He was smoking pot around my children, snorting cocaine, and not to mention this black powdery substance my son found. And he says he loves his kids so much. LIES. He is just a selfish person. He went all the way to call his own children "pieces of shit" and "trash" and that I made them that way because I have a crappy job. Nice father. He didn't even tell his wife to be that he has another child. She claims she know him so well and she's known him for 10 years. She doesn't know crap.

I am sure he is furious about being turned in. We have custody court and he actually thinks he has rights and can get my children when he is a criminal, on drugs, has a violent temper, and no green card.

My children and I attend counseling for everything he has done. I sure hope my children do not turn out like him. A dead beat dad. I hope I do get my child support, but that is a toss up. He'll either pay to stay out of trouble or just take off because he is a coward.

Men are retarded and think they are hurting the women when the entire time they are hurting themselves and their children. But in the end, children don't need to deal with anymore bad behavior from their fathers.


You have been warned.

(light editing of misspellings)

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Posted by Digger on December 15, 2009 11:46 AM (Permalink)

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"I didn't know he was an illegal alien at the time".

Well did you know that eventually you would be collecting child support?

Did the guy know he might have to pay child support when he was with you? Cause child support is not used in Mexico to the best of my knowledge. It keeps promiscuity at a lesser level also I think they have a ten percent divorce rate, we have over fifty.

It sucks to be in this spot because their truly are some great wonderful american girls who get messed over.

Why donb't you send your child to him in Mexico and you pay child support since you would be making the big bucks by Mexican standards.

Another alternative is to let the tax payer do it.

Posted by: Aaron Friend on December 17, 2009 10:32 PM

$28,000 wow it sure is profitable to have kids out of wedlock. Hmmm! four kids equals a paid for home? I'm wondering if she didn't get pregnant on purpose. Also I would love to know how many times he has seen his kid? Also how long did it take to turn him in cause he was smoking pot? Sounds like a business venture gone bad. But like you guys say hell just blame it on the illegals. AAAAHHH the good ole american dream "To pay child support after being suckered".

Posted by: Aaron Friend on December 17, 2009 10:39 PM

Wow, talk about blaming the victim!

Posted by: Digger on December 18, 2009 11:32 AM

Okay I am a Mexican woman and I have kids and a family, I think you white stupid “girls” are ignorant and dumb!!!!!!

Who would date and have kids with someone you don’t know 100%. HELLO does he have a car payment, credit cards ETC? If not this would be a BIG RED FLAG

Not all illegals are from MEXICO don’t be stupid we are not the only neighboring country to the USA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But since we all are not blonde and blue eye’s that’s why you see us as third class people!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: WTF on February 8, 2010 06:08 PM

When is a woman accountable for her actions?????? The only v”ictim’s” I see are the children for having a heartless father and a stupid ass mother!!!!

Posted by: WTF on February 8, 2010 06:11 PM

Not all illegals are from MEXICO

True, however half of the 10's of millions of Mexicans in America are illegal.

Posted by: Digger on February 8, 2010 09:09 PM

No shit in California not in the United States!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There are different Latinos in the United States.

It just depends what state you live in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: WTF on February 9, 2010 02:11 PM

It’s funny you didn’t mention the responsibility of woman that get with the “illegal’s” and bare the kids which ends up costing us money do to their ignorance and foolishness!!!!!!!!

Posted by: WTF on February 9, 2010 02:15 PM

To All the Stupid Woman who obviously have low self-worth,

Here’s the total dollars you’re dumb asses are costing us in California!!!!!!!!!!!!!
All this could have been avoided if you had respected your on whom you spread your legs to!!!!!!!!!!

Source: Office of Supervisor Michael D. Antonovich
Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors, 5th District
Posted: April 27, 2009 11:13 a.m.
POSTED April 27, 2009 1:30 p.m.

LOS ANGELES COUNTY - Figures from the Department of Public Social Services show that children of illegal aliens in Los Angeles County collected more than $21 million in welfare and more than $22 million in food stamps in March 2009 -- an increase of $1 million from the previous month, according to a news release from Los Angeles County Supervisor Michael D. Antonovich.

Annually the cost of illegal immigration to Los Angeles County taxpayers exceeds one billion dollars, which includes $220 million for public safety, $400 million for healthcare, and $500 million in welfare and food stamps allocations, according to the news release.

Twenty-four percent of the county's total allotment of welfare and food stamp benefits goes directly to the children of illegal aliens born in the United States, according to Antonovich's statement.

"Illegal immigration continues to have a devastating impact on Los Angeles County taxpayers," Antonovich said in the statement. "The total cost for illegal immigrants to county taxpayers exceeds $1 billion a year - not including the millions of dollars for education."

Posted by: WTF on February 9, 2010 02:27 PM

The World will be coming to an end. So many people abused the system of welfare. Not, only the immigrants the Americans born family do it too.

Posted by: N on February 12, 2010 07:38 PM

THANK YOU very much N you are 100% correct.

If these people (digger) would research before posting their “comments” it would be an interesting site.

From WTF!!!!

Posted by: WTF on February 16, 2010 12:06 PM

I married an illegal Alien and we were in the process of getting his visa when his mother got sick and he returned to mexico to take care of her 5 years ago. He has Never Returned! I know his Real Name, Address in MExico, so How do I collect support from him? He owns a Lsrge Farm there and has good income.

Posted by: Sara Crisostomo on June 21, 2010 12:17 PM

for sara crisostomo i know what your going through you can actually go and get child support from the father if you go to your local dhs office and ask about there form for illegal aliens child support form and fill that out and give them all of his information you should be able to get child support from him and they will put him in jail here till your child is 18 while you recieve the child support and he will have to work until that day wish you the best of luck

Posted by: momof2 on March 22, 2011 02:42 PM

Im crying right now because of the fact that my story is similiar to all these women who get with illegal mexicans. I was with my daughters dad for almost 2 yrs and i we were supposed to get married last month but that didn't happen. he woumd up beating the crap out of me, so I called the police on him and they took him to jail and he was deported back to Mexico. Now his whole family where i live wont help me out because hes telling them that i cheated on him the whole time i was with him. to all those girls out there who are with illegals, BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!! they are smart and will play you and put you down till you think your nothing. Now he's in Mexico and there is ABSOLUTLEY no way i can get any type of child support from him. but im better off on my own, im in school and on welfare to take care of my daughter

Posted by: Laura Coker on March 31, 2011 12:35 PM

I have to say I am currently going through this situation now. I regret it 100%. He was so good to me and did so much for me. Then he started getting really possessive and jealous. Started verbally abusing me and then when i was 6 months pregnant with his son, he was drinking and he hit me. I left him and thank God for my family. I wish I could go back. I really thought he cared about me and loved me. Whether he does or doesn't really don't even matter anymore, because i would rather be a single parent struggling financially than be with him another minute. I simply do not understand why he did this to me.

Posted by: Lisi on October 3, 2012 10:41 PM

You know not all weman are ignorant i have three kids by a man i loved and married when i was pregnant with the third he went out of town to work and never came back Never thought I would be raising three kids on my own its not my fault or my childrens fault who their daddy is but i feel like the government allows them illegals to come over and do whatever the hell they want and the weman and children are the ones who suffer just so our farmers can have workers well Its not fair and all your hear about is imagration reform from the presedents well I feel like if the government had to pay child support to every american woman who bared children the maybe they would think twice about imagration reform or migrant workers just like the rally that imagrant had when atlanta tried the arizona law we weman should make a day stand up and do a rally to it just isnt fair at all

Posted by: Leslie Benton on April 8, 2013 08:18 PM

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