In September 2006 I received an email from a reader wondering if she could somehow receive child support from an illegal alien. She did not know that her boyfriend was an illegal alien at the time she got pregnant and then he just vanished.

Since that time I have received a constant flow of emails and comments regarding receiving child support from an illegal alien. My response to most of them is not hopeful because most illegals are using false documents. You can read some of the comments and horror stories at my entry "Can You Get Child Support From An Illegal Alien?"

Immigration cannot even track illegal workers in this country. Even people who have reported illegal aliens or businesses that hire them have seen no action taken by law enforcement. The chances of you receiving child support from an illegal alien are very slim. Their false identities and rampant identity theft put a criminal barrier between their actions and their responsibilities. This is deliberate and purposeful.

My caution to all of you out there is do not deal with illegal aliens at all. If you happen upon one report them to ICE at the hotline: 1-866-DHS-2-ICE

Do not date them. Do not hire them. Do not buy oranges from them. Do not deal with them at all. You don't know exactly who you are dealing with, whether they be a criminal with fake identity or just someone who is truly here to send money back home (though still using a stolen identity). Many already have a family back home and any promises to you of loyalty are strictly for the moment and their benefit. I've received so many emails stating that they have had a baby with an illegal alien only later to find out they have a wife and kids back in their home country it is simply staggering.

Here is one of the latest horror stories that was sent into me by Reader Chloe.

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I am in the same situation as all the others. It doesn't get any easier either, only more complicated. My illegal and I were on and off for the past 9 1/2 years. We really did love each other at one time. He decided to see someone else, well apparently for the entire time we've been together.

It just proves they can lead a double life and get away with it. He currently does not pay support but many say the reason is because I will not let him see the kids. That is just stupid. Well, we both have restraining orders against each other. But he is really the crazy one. He abused me the entire time, just over the summer he decided since I didn't want to follow him home from the restaurant he would hit my truck and cause almost $5000.00 of damage to it.

He even told my children to keep this other girl a secret and that she would be their new "MOMMY". I did not find out right away. But when I did, I was mad. He only played mind games with me and it was all lies.

That is all these men do from Mexico. They find some helpless girl who will pity them and get them pregnant.Then decide to abuse them every way possible and end up not taking care of their responsibilities.

But this illegal mexican did work two jobs basically everyday. No wonder why he managed to have an affair. And the money, well, he would say "that's my money. not your money." He called me lazy and I am a bad mother while I was left home with the children while he partied all night with other girls.

This new girl he plans on marrying just to get his green card. Immigration does not care, the police will not do anything about it. It is so obvious illegals get away with everything. They have fake social security cards, IDs, birth certificates. It is no wonder immigration is never able to find them.

For the longest time he didn't want child support to come after his ass because immigration might get him.
I called the child support office, gave info where he works, the fake social security # he uses, even his bank account number. As of this day, he owes me $28,000 and that is just for one kid. He has paid to date $77.00.

I did one better to by turning him in for child neglect and abuse. It wasn't a lie either. He was smoking pot around my children, snorting cocaine, and not to mention this black powdery substance my son found. And he says he loves his kids so much. LIES. He is just a selfish person. He went all the way to call his own children "pieces of shit" and "trash" and that I made them that way because I have a crappy job. Nice father. He didn't even tell his wife to be that he has another child. She claims she know him so well and she's known him for 10 years. She doesn't know crap.

I am sure he is furious about being turned in. We have custody court and he actually thinks he has rights and can get my children when he is a criminal, on drugs, has a violent temper, and no green card.

My children and I attend counseling for everything he has done. I sure hope my children do not turn out like him. A dead beat dad. I hope I do get my child support, but that is a toss up. He'll either pay to stay out of trouble or just take off because he is a coward.

Men are retarded and think they are hurting the women when the entire time they are hurting themselves and their children. But in the end, children don't need to deal with anymore bad behavior from their fathers.

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You have been warned.

(light editing of misspellings)